Agitation, disorientation, apathy : how to respond day to day as a family carer?

Agitation can reflect discomfort, fear, fatigue or an unmet need. A few approaches often help:
- speak slowly, in a gentle voice, using short sentences;
- avoid contradicting or trying to reason with the person;
- reduce surrounding noise and distractions;
- offer a familiar activity or a short walk.

When the person no longer knows where they are or what time of day it is, it is helpful to reassure them rather than correct them. Visible cues (a clear clock, calendar, adequate lighting) and regular routines can help them orientate themselves.

Apathy — a loss of motivation and initiative — is often misunderstood by those around them. Rather than insisting, you can suggest small, simple activities suited to the person's interests, and value every participation, however brief.

If these situations become frequent or exhausting, it is important not to struggle alone. The person's doctor should be informed of any change in behaviour. GéroStim-Expertise offers dedicated support for at least 3 consecutive hours, based on adapted communication and a reassuring presence, which also provides a period of respite for loved ones.